My Little City Blog

Good Bye NYC!

2009-05-18T07:03:00.000-07:00

May 18, 2009

New York,

It is not easy to scribe you this letter, then again, saying good-bye has never been easy for me. I sit here in my Fifth Floor walk-up listening to John Coltrane’s famous song, In A Sentimental Mood. How appropriate…because when I’m in need of a New York moment I throw this song on. When Coltrane plays I’m quickly transported to your bustling streets, my quiet morning runs in central park, and to my rooftop overlooking Harlem. So as of today, New York, this is our song. Honestly, how can we not have a song after a 15 year relationship? Wink!

New York, saying good-bye after 15 years makes me rather pensive. You have taught me so much about life, the world, the arts, friendship, and me. Everyday you presented me with something new: a life lesson, a new restaurant, a new friend, an old lost friend, and of course a party for good measure. Yes, New York, you were everything they said you were in the brochures and more. I drank the New York City cool-aid and loved the flavor so much that I kept drinking it year after year.

People have tried to capture you in poems, books, and movies. But between you and me, New York, they never do you justice. The beat of the express train as it races downtown at high speeds to the hustle and bustle of Lower-Manhattan is something you can only understand and enjoy by riding a packed train during rush hour. The games one plays while on that train to pass the time are fun too! I like to play the game, What Stop? A simple game where you pick what stop you think a person is going to get off at. The Suit, he’s going to Wall St. The young 23 year old recent graduate who dresses in the latest fashions in Vogue, she’s going to 42nd Street, The Conde Nast Building.

Yet, New York, as great and fantastic as you have been the New York City experience couldn’t have been possible without my crew. And although this is a good-bye letter to you, New York, I feel I have to give them some shout outs!

Anita (Cucks),
You have been my best friend during this incredible run. To be honest, I never really had a best friend until you came into my life and I thank you for that experience. I lack the proper writing skills and vernacular to express my deepest love and appreciation for your friendship. In the end, what I can say is you have been my rock, my shoulder to lean on, and the one person who has always believed in me. Thank you, Cucks.

Rey (Mush),
Hey, Compadre. If there is someone who embraces the greatness that is New York City it is you. I remember the night we sat on the roof of the library and you pointed to the New York skyline and said, “This is why I came to Columbia…the world is here, Joaquin.” Church!!! You have been a true friend, a roommate, an ear when I’ve needed to vent, a fellow Cowboys fan, a boxing junkie like me, and of course a great person to grab “One Drink” with. Gracias por todo, Compa.

John (The General),
Juanito. Tell Sloan I said, what up? My crime partner in the city…I know you are an atheist and I respect that, bro. But I think my main man upstairs, JC, put you in my life for a reason. I can’t express to you how important your friendship has been to me all these years. You have a heart of gold and I’m always impressed how you are able to navigate between so many circles and to be loved by them all. If anyone ever asks you, Juanito, what is your best characteristic? Make sure to say this, “John Lee is a fiercely loyal friend.” Gracias por todo, General.

Danny (D)
Daniel, Un gran abrazo, Primo. To the man who has pushed me for years to get out of the city. I write to notify you, “I’m finally leaving.” You will of course respond with, “I need to see you on the plane first…send me a picture.” A photo will be sent. LOL! D, you have showed me that life can pass you by very fast and you have to love it everyday. “Sucking the marrow out of the bone of life one day at a time” best describes how you approach life. The last minute trips to Vegas, driving in vicious snowstorms to watch Mana and our famous Sunday margarita fiestas; you truly love life, Bro. I feel blessed to have learned this lesson from you and I’m putting that lesson into action now. Gracias.

Papa, Mami y Elena,
Being away from you three has not been easy. You are my blood and never does a day pass by that I don’t think of you three. And know that not a day passes that I don’t understand and fully appreciate all the sacrifices you three have made for me to be here. Gracias, Familia.

New York, some people have come with the idea that they will beat you, only to go back to their hometowns defeated and humbled. We have had our share of battles with one another along the way…I have won some and lost many. The battle scars inflicted on me by you I don’t see as scars of failure. On the contrary, I see them as scars of growth, resilience, and they’re scars which I needed to acquire in order to grow. It is on this little island that demons from my past have been killed and some have been born. New York, know I leave you fulfilled, happy, and in peace with no traces of bitterness.

In closing, these tears I shed are tears of extreme happiness and of extreme sadness mixed together. I’m not too proud to state; it hurts me deeply to be leaving you and I’m thankful you have let me call you home for so long. Also, know that your are the reason that this boy who arrived 15 years ago on a Tower Air Flight with 100.00 bucks in his pocket has grown into a man who leaves with a wealth of experience in life. Thank you, New York and I will always love you.

Con respecto,
Joaquin Manuel Ochoa

Post Script – I will be having a going away/birthday party this Friday if you want to stop buy and have a drink with me before my departure.

Loreley Bar
7 Rivington Street
9:00pm – till the lights come on.

The Crew

Little Post

2009-01-13T19:03:00.000-08:00

Sorry it has been so long since I have written here on my city blog.

There is so much to write about. My first of what I hope will be many trips over the next couple of years. I got to see my parent’s new home in Arizona, hang with friends in Vegas and hang with some other nice people on my trip West.

Here is where I tend to capture the trip with tons and tons of pictures. Although the medium has served me well and I’m sure that I will do as such in the past. I would much rather just say I had a great time on my trip.

In any case, I wanted to direct you to a new blog. I found out my childhood friend, Eva Falk has a blog. In any case, if you would be as so kind of head over there and check it out and say hello it would be greatly appreciated. So click HERE to visit Eva's blog.

At JFK

2008-11-24T03:18:00.000-08:00

I find myself at JFK airport at the new and improved JetBlue terminal. I have to say, I'm rather impressed and don't mind that JetBlue has raised their prices a bit. I find it odd that hotels would charge for internet service while JetBlue gives it for free.

In any case, so I'm starting my two month journey around the world. New York, Arizona, Vegas, Los Angeles, Philippines, Dubai and London. Should be a good ride and I hope to update my little space on the inter-dweeb world.

I'm currently playing low limit poker as I write this so it might take me some time to get this out to be honest. Yet, I have an hour before my plane boards so I hope to have it done and up before I board my plane. I'm somewhat fearful of flying so maybe this is my last testament that I'm actually going to take this trip. You know, just in case my plane doesn't make it. If that does happen know that this called life has been good to me. Holla!

Going on to other things. I wanted to post some pictures of times around the city...enjoy.

Class!

Me and Uncle Joe somewhere in NYC. We only went to like two bars so it had to be one of the two...haha! For those of you who know me...well I can't stay still for long so this is a bit of a lie.

Does anybody know who this guy is? I've seen him all over the place as of late. Does he make movies or something of the sorts?

François my buddy from France that came to the city and crashed at my pad a bit. Nice guy and we had a blast in the city.

Me before the summit. I had to shave in the end...couldn't take it anymore.

In closing, will upload pictures once I get to the desert. Thanks for joining.

Been A While

2008-09-03T13:27:00.000-07:00

It has been a while since I've posted on this blog or any of my other blogs. But the time is now to post. I will be posting more often now and expect me to come out with more stories of nights on the town. I have always held those back for some reason but some of the stuff I see is amazing and one can't make up. Serious, I just sit there in amazement as the stuff transpires before my very eyes.

So keep an eye and out take note that I'm going to try and get some pictures with these stories. I always feel short changed when someone writes about someone totally drunk and such but doesn't have a picture to go with it.

In closing, keep your eyes open for the post should start coming soon enough.

Ella de Otro Tiempo

2008-07-29T11:39:00.001-07:00

Ella, la persona que ame, es de otro tiempo
Sus labios ya tienen otro dueño
Su corazón tan linda, encontró como amar otra vez
Y para amar otro

Y yo...pues yo aquí quebrado

Family!

2008-07-22T07:35:00.000-07:00

Picture of Jack, Danny, Me, and Uncle Joe. Sure there are four guys with their arms around one another, but this picture is NO HOMO. Also ladies, if you are in ever in Santa Cruz look up Danny and Jack...two good guys to have a beer with.

A rare photo of LOS GUYS.

A picture of my Dad (middle) with his Compadres: Tony Boy and Mario.

Me and Uncle Jerry. Uncle Jerry is one of the most interesting characters in my family, I think he forged my grandmother's signature so he could join the army at 15.

Stella, my sister, and Raquel.

Danny, Tony Boy and Me. Holla!

These are the pictures of the back of Tony Boys' home. If you look at the picture above you can see the other side where the pool is. My cousin Tony Boy just rolls like that.

Gina and Tony Boy. Two differnt generations of my cousins.

Picture of another generation of cousins. For all you ladies out there reading. Well if you need proof that the family genes are good just take a look at these cuties. So to answer your question, yes, we would have beautiful kids.

Me, Stella and Corky.

Me and Tony Boy.

My sister and her husband, Tim.

My cousin Steven's Band. I have to give them props...it was hot that day and they played two long sets in the heat without complaining.

Pepe! What can I say about Pepe...I guess that he's our dog.

Picture of my Mom with her long time friend, Evelyn.

Ana and Mario who have been life long friends of my Mom and Dad.

I come from a musically inclinded family. This is my cousin Letty singing a little diddy of a song.

The above two pictures are of our party grounds. Yes, we set up tents and stage areas for performers. That is just how my family rolls. If you go over to my FOOD BLOG you can see some of the grilling that takes place. I love that big red tent for the people who can't drive and have to crash the night there.

The Horse Shoes. I'm a ringer, Baby!

This is a tribute to my cousin Rudy Dominguez who passed a few years ago. His brother-in-law Roy has been working on this for a few years and and it is a work in progress. This is Roy's childhood guitar and he and my cousin played together for many years and were more like brother's than in-laws.

A picture of my Dad, me, Uncle Danny and Little Danny.

Horses

2008-07-10T09:20:00.001-07:00

Currently in NYC the Museum of Natural History is having an exhibition on horses. Yet, I've seen these horses all around the city, these just happen to be in front of the Natural Museum of History. Enjoy!

Summit

2008-07-09T12:32:00.000-07:00

I leave for the summit for a few days. Thus, don't expect much from this blog over the next couple of days. I have been trying to keep things posted here and there as to what has been going on with The Rooster. Sorry to say, I can't really say what goes on at the Summit, but I will make sure and post some pictures when I get back and you can make up your mind as to what goes on.

Esperando Memorias

2008-07-08T09:31:00.000-07:00

Estoy parado en un equina buscando
Pero nunca pasas

Creo que te perdí
Pero como puedo perder algo que nunca tenía
En mis sueños yo era tu amor, tu ancla, y tu sol en los días mas escuras

Espero que tus labios me busquen en la noche
Pero se que esos labios tienen otro dueño...otro sol

Aquí estoy en mi sitio escuro esperando
Pero que espero...una memoria

Odd Ramblings

2008-07-07T11:33:00.001-07:00

I got a bunch of writing in this weekend which was nice. Sometimes when writing my little poems I get lost. After about 10 in one week the process becomes sometimes repetitive and I have to watch for that. Not only in terms of content and style, but also the timing and rhythm of the poem.

Nasty Naz's new album is coming out in a few weeks. Serious, I've never been this real huge music fan that waits and knows what albums are coming out...but I've been waiting for this album to drop for some time now. After a few delays it looks like it will be out in two weeks from now.

I also got to spend some time with Shafeera which was nice. I don't think that I've mentioned Shafeera here but she is one unique girl. I really do think that she was meant to be a photo journalist or just a photo taker. Serious, she has such a great eye...there a few people that I know who have a good eye when it comes to photos. It is one of those things that you either have or you don't have. Me, sorry...I don't have it. Boooo! But that doesn't mean that I can't get a good snap shot in here and there.

In any case, thought I would leave you with a couple of self portriats that Shafeera one on the Nile River and the other in Greece.

Random Photos

2008-07-07T08:39:00.000-07:00

I try not to brag much about California barbecue but my family knows how to do it. Here is a picture of the barbecue pit that we had at my family gathering. Also, you can get more pictures of this grill working My Food Blog. I would explain why California does the best brisket but we can talk about that later.

Here is a picture of Uncle Joe with my Mom.

Another picture of Uncle Joe with Little Timmy on our last visit to Watsonville.

At the NYC barbecue fest with a few friends: Liz and Laura's brother.

Picture of Liz and me. Have to take a picture with Liz. She is a neat girl who has these odd quirks about here. The one thing that I love about Liz is she always makes an effort to touch base and hangout even if it is for an hour.

First Night Back Home

2008-06-30T06:19:00.001-07:00

So I got to visit my hometown for the last time in a long time. My parents have moved from my hometown so there really isn't a lot of reasons for which to return. Watsonville will always be home for me in many ways, but the reality is that I haven't lived there in the physical sense in a long time and now I'm just a NYC boy. Moving on...here are a few pictures from the first night I was home.

This is my buddy who goes by many names: Riiiiigs (that's i=e for the non-Spanish speakers), David El Pocho, and of course just Dave. Of course I would have loved to spend more time with Dave because we always roll pretty hard when I go home. But Dave was having some drama with his girl and decided she was more important to tend to than his friendship of some 20 years. Like I've always said, some guys put blinders on when it comes to friendship when they have a girl. Me, well I know where my bread is buttered and my friends have always been there for me. I don't blame Dave to be honest, but in all honesty, he should know better. So Dave I know you are reading this...get a blog and you can roast me if you wish...but you know the truth homie...my last time in Watsonville and you pull that...boooooo!

These two foolios have been rolling together for many a year. Uncle Joe and D-Money. What can I say, these guys have the good life. They live off funds they make on-line, live like rock stars when it comes to following porn conventions and just cruise trough life in chill mode. Good stuff. I'm not sure how long D-Money and my Uncle Joe have been friends but they look out for one another and that is what a guy needs...a buddy who will be there in good and bad times. On another note, I got to see some of the EuroCup with D-Money when I was home (uncle joe was at the gym) and poor-poor D-Money...his team, Netherlands, took a bad beat by peaking too early and getting spanked in the knock out rounds.

This was the first drink of the trip so I had to get on film. I think this toast was done at El Palomar in Santa Cruz.

This is some girl that Uncle Joe knows. I'm not sure why but she insisted on taking her dog into this bar. Not going to say anymore about that topic...but honestly, I know it is Santa Cruz and all...but who takes a dog into the bar?

Need I say more?

2008-06-24T10:51:00.000-07:00

Once this fine young lady asked me if I thought we would have beautiful children. Hummm...interesting question for a first date. I explained to her that I would have to see pictures of her family because although she was fine and all...well sometimes it skips a generation. Thus, if her mother was beautiful then all would be good.

In any case, when it comes to my side of the family and looks...well I really don't like to brag or boast...cough!cough! But as you can see in these pictures...well as they say, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.

With that being said, if we were to go by family pictures and my ability to reproduce beautiful kids then my cousins here would be all the proof a girl would need.

Pictures!!

2008-06-23T12:34:00.000-07:00

Norma and Cynthia. Congrats to Cynthia who is now engaged.

It is the Cougar Hunter and Two Possible Victims.

Comadres: Norma and Letty.

Rey "El Rey" Contreras and Leslie.

Spencer always looks hard like that people. He's with the very beautiful Elena.

Jenn, Adam and Me. On another note, Adam is one of the funnest people to party with in the city. Always nice and the ladies love it that he's a gentleman...why he hangs with me is another story.

Me and Angelica. Yes, I did call her Norma above. But her name is Norma Angelica and when it is her and me: Angelica.

John "The General" Lee and Ruby. Need I say more? Serious, Ruby is so damn sexy.

Picture of the fountain in Central Park.

Lee is such a pimp. Holla at your boy, Lee!!

Need I say more?

My girl who is now in South America for like three months. Tarah, holla at your boy when you get the chance. Hope you are having a blast down there. Practice your Spanish, mija.

Taking care of the baby.

Lina and Mel. Fun hanging with these two girls. Not to mention they love to dance!

G-Money! Cinci's finest in this picture. 513 top of the food chain!

The Poker Blogger Bar.

Good-Bye George

2008-06-23T12:29:00.000-07:00

The Upper West Side of NYC has lost a legend. Rest in peace, Mr. Carlin. Oh, and in the words of Frankie...you did things your way. Amen!

Ramblings

2008-06-09T10:55:00.000-07:00

I'm going home for the last time in a long time this coming week. My folks have purchased a home in Az. so they are moving out of California. I'm not sure how I feel about this? I'm sure there will be a string of emotions that will run both high and low. Many of the best memories of my life were made in that town. Yet, and like everyone, with those good memories some not so pleasant one's will come to mind. As I mentioned in my previous post, I will run like hell to avoid those bad memories.

But what I have learned that in the end what I have learned is that I have good friends that will listen if I need to talk. With that being said, here a few pictures of me this past two weeks. If you notice The Rooster has his pimp hat in full effect. Oh, and I wanted to thank Claire for situating our last gathering in the park...of course it was awesome.

Dark Places Call For Running

2008-06-06T08:13:00.000-07:00

I always laugh at my inter-dweeb friends when they are in a funk. Maybe I laugh because I know them and I can see them kicking themselves in the ass and there is a comedy about that to me. Yet, I can see when they are in a rough patch and fighting demons and it makes me sad. I know what it is to deal with those demons...those dark places that people need to go into to confront those demons are scary and not safe places. For their courage, The Rooster is in awe.

I, myself, The Rooster, have left my demons from my past there...in the past. I’ve never really confronted them, I just ran from them. It was just easier for me to run than to stand and fight. I did a great job of running, too! I went to the top colleges in the nation and ended up in what can be argued as the greatest city on earth, NYC. I beam with pride at my accomplishments. I have good friends who are always there for me when I need them. Yet, for the first time in a long time those demons are coming back and haunting me.

Some would tell me to stop and fight them. Me, I don’t have time to sit there on a couch and talk it out or even hug it out and I have been in too many battles with them in my past. I’m a runner so I will just keep running. Call me a coward if you will...honestly, I’m o.k. with that title. It is much better than getting in fights, being thrown in jail, getting kicked out of school and having enough anger in your blood to kill if need be. I’m not that boy anymore. I'm better than that and I’ve done it by running away. But I wish I could sit that young angry boy down that was me and tell him that life is brutal with its twists and turns. I would shake him and tell him not to be so angry with the world, the people around him, and don’t be angry with your family. Because in the end, those people continue to live their life and you are stuck in anger.

So even now...when I don’t know who I am and my hands shake as I type this. I have to remember that I’m o.k., I’m not a monster or bad person, and that trials come and this is just another. That those dark places do catch up from time to time and I can either flight or fight. But I must always remember that life is great and I woke up and could walk, smell, taste and I should smile about these gifts.

One day I might sit and fight but for me running for daylight has always been much safer and happier.

My Birthday Picture

2008-06-05T10:53:00.001-07:00

Random Pictures!

2008-05-20T10:13:00.000-07:00

This was this nice girl I met at Nick's. I'm not sure her name and I'm not sure why I cut her boyfriend out of the picture...but I did. In any case, nice girl who laughed at a few of my jokes.

Me and John "The General" Lee kicking it on Cinco de Mayo. I think I've spent more Cinco de Mayos with this Korean than anyone. Too funny! Holla!

Rey "El Rey" Contreras with his cousin, Gerry "Cougar Hunter" Rodriguez

Stevie the Bull rides the subways of the NYC!

Lee "Smooth" Morrison doing what he does best...chilling with a beer. If you are ever in LA and want to party this is the man to call.

John, Telma, Milos, and Ruby on our quickly put together Cinco de Mayo party. Although put together at the last second it was very kick-ass.

Las de Yale. Never forget Ramon Ayala, Ladies.

Rey, Lindsey, and Lee at Keeley's bar where the beautiful Lindsey tends to the bar.

Me and KB. Nuff said people...KB is the man!

Ruby and Anne! Ruby has to be one of the best people to party with in the city. And Anne...well Anne left and went and married some nice guy from D.C. She still pops in the city from time to time...Anne and I will always have France in common.

Moon and the crew. What can you say, Moon is one of the nicest guys in the world and is always there with a quick smile and hug. Great guy!!

This is a fat cat that hangs out in this record store down on Bleeker Street.

Mel and Alina in the photo. I was their photographer for the night.

Subway Ride To Work

2008-05-19T09:12:00.000-07:00

Every time I jump on the subway here in the NYC I wonder how many times I am going to fall in love. I tend to do that to pass the time and the amounts of times I fall in love can vary from 1 to 8. Yes, that is I fall in love 8 times in half an hour. Of course this isn’t love per se, but I pretend my quick visions of beauty are love and who can dispute that.

Today I fell in love twice.

There was this random Indian girl who gets on at my stop. She is tall and slender and probably too tall for me, but she always smiles and says hello. It is more of an acknowledgement that we both ride the train at the same time every day. Seeing her makes me smile and makes me feel a bit like someone else is on my boat of grinding it out daily.

I then fell in love with an older lady. She must have been about 45 but she was in shape. She had this really hip leather jacket and dress on under. Physically she wasn’t a year over 28 with her great legs.

Well when you are forced to be face to face with hundreds and even thousands of people a day you have to do something to pass the time. I suggest you fall in love on the subway a few times.

Sad

2008-04-18T09:46:00.000-07:00

It is sad.
I know how she looks at me but I continue to make love…she thinks of it as fucking.

It is sad.
I see him and know him…but the elephant in the room doesn’t let me talk to my father.

It is sad.
I pretend like she is not in an abusive relationship...she is my best friend.

4/4/2008

2008-04-14T05:29:00.000-07:00

Not drinking is hard
smoking hookah to cut the urge

as small and short our emails and texts are
I miss them when you don’t send them

I watch Chinese Kung-Fu flicks that I get in Chinatown for 5.00 dollars

running hurts my old brittle legs these days...but I still run

Eating dinner alone makes me happy

Robyn Moreno

2008-04-02T11:36:00.000-07:00

Once again, I try not to promote people I know much. Serious, for I only do know A-Lister's and they get enough air time if you ask me.

In any case, this is one of my old school friends, Robyn Moreno. I met Robyn many moons ago in the city when she was a lone nobody. Now she has three books and is blowing up the spot. I teach the rookies well is all I can say, if you listen young Jedi as Robyn did, well then you too might become an A-Lister. Holla!!

In any case, make sure and click
HERE

RIP Frank

2008-04-01T10:56:00.000-07:00

I sit here a bit sad today due to the passing of my friend, writer, and reader of my humble blog, Frank Walsh. Frank Walsh passed away this past Saturday in his sleep and he will be missed. Frank fought cancer like nobody else and he fought it down to his last days. I suppose I can talk and talk about Frank but in the end he was a good husband, father, and son.

We exchanged many email on the daily and this was an email he sent me on Friday. I have cut some out because we were talking back and forth but this is the main part:

HAPPY EASTER!!

Last year the doctors told me I probably would not make it til this Easter. Well against the medical odds I am still here.

God has more work for me here on earth so he is letting me hang around!

I hope you have a great day ....thanks for being my friend

Frank

You can also read some of Franks articles by clicking
HERE

Please keep Frank's family in your positive thoughts.

Enjoy!

2008-03-27T14:29:00.001-07:00

Politico?

2008-03-26T07:34:00.000-07:00

As you know, we here at My Little Blog don't support politics and think most people who are into politics are odd. Also, we never shill for either party because they are not to the left enough for The Rooster.

Yet, we do acknowledge that many bloggers are into the stuff. With that being said, I wanted to list some blogs dealing with politics from our group.

VERBOSITIES
This is a great group of conservatives and liberals. I like what is going on over here at this blog. I would pay this place a visit if you have a chance.

Iggy
Is doing some funny things with politics but also giving you some good reading so go hit him up. Recently he's been criticized for not killing work productivity, but sometimes those videos keep me smiling and not thinking about work so he's killing work time just in another way.

Mrs. Otis
Has thrown her hat into the politics circle. I have to admit, and I say this with hoping not to offend those before who have done as such...but she is a short white woman who has spoken pretty openly about race and I find it refreshing and I salute her for it. I'm not only talking about her Obama write-up on race...look at her backlog of writings.

Human Head
Although he is playing father right now...well I love his rants. I sit there sometimes and think two things...this guy has too much anger and too much time on his hands.

B-Lister Bracelet
When looking for all things Detroit check out Bobby. Sure he is a jokester and all...but the truth is that Bobby loves his Detroit and wants the city to get better; so if you want to talk to him serious about the issues in the city write him an email. There are times when he writes some back-handed humor about the situation but if you read between the lines you will get it.

Random

2008-03-11T07:35:00.001-07:00

I am currently listening to Timmy McGraw and I’m still pissed that he was able to land Faith.

Moving on.

Red Light – Green light is just an awesome game. So is Duck-Duck-Goose. Why did the Mexican kid never get chosen to be The Goose? I guess probably because I have some wheels, Kid.

I need to start to get back to my food blog. Serious, I loved posting pictures of crap that I ate on that thing.

I thought this was going to be a good post but I’m starting to see that it is going to crap already.

I seen this Asian girl crying at the bar last night. It was sad seeing her cry then I see her tear into her boyfriend then I felt bad for the guy. Serious, to be there in a bar and be humiliated by your crying girlfriend who doesn’t want to leave the bar is a sad-sad thing. If I were him I would have just given her a couple of shots of Tequila to settle her down. I remember when parents use to do that to their kids when I was growing up. Give him a beer so he would settle down. Ummm…I think that lead to many of kids in my neighborhood growing up alcoholics. Yet, I think their parents would disagree and blame the kid for being a drunk, it had nothing to do with the daily beer you would give the kid to settle him down.

There is this man in my neighborhood who is always asking me for a dime. Serious, he just sits there and is like, do you have a diiiiiiiime? I think he’s probably asked me this a million times over the years. I never give him a dime and I don’t feel bad for it. Serious. I think to myself, do something like juggle a ball or tell me a damn joke and I will give you a dollar or five.

I’ve been meeting some interesting people as of late, a few lesbians, a welder, and a female pole dancer. They are all interesting to say the least and the road to all their sexual orientation or jobs fascinates me. I can’t go into details for they didn’t allow me to discuss it on this blog and none of them even know I have a blog, but just in case they google me they will find that mum is the word and that is gold in my book.

Well I have to cut this post short. I figured I would just write random crap for people to read. Everyone likes to know what the A-Lister is up to.

Spanglish

2008-03-06T05:44:00.000-08:00

I think most of the time in English...yes, even when I speak in Spanish

My Dad says he thinks in Spanish about 80% of the time

My Mom...not sure.

My Sister...we don’t talk about that type of stuff

I listen to Spanish music about 50% of the time, country about 30%, jazz about 10%, rap about 5%, classical about 4%, and other music 1% of the time.

My barber doesn’t speak a word of English, been cutting my hair for 12 years and we never speak...I sit in seat and he cuts

Most of my friends speak both Spanish and English, I speak to them in Spanish...they speak to me in English

I can switch from English to Spanish and Spanish to English mid-sentence
My Mom says one or the other for mixing brings bad habits

Humbling

2008-03-03T11:53:00.001-08:00

“God bless those two little Mexican Men and what they did in the ring.”
Joe Speaker via text after the Vazquez v. Marquez III fight.

When a fanatic of everything sport texts you like that...well you know you did just witness a great fight. As we all know, The Rooster can pontificate when it comes to boxing. In this case, I can only say, I was humbled into silence.

The ebbs and flows of this fight and the brutality were close to heart stopping. Come to think of it, my heart did stop a few times. The purest of boxing fans loved the sweet science on display and the ability of each fighter to impose one’s will and game plan, only to have to readjust it to one’s opponents changes. The changes were small such as double jab as opposed to single and only could be seen by the trained eye. But the brutality of the adjustments could be seen by all.

In closing, I can go on and on about this fight. But like I said, I was humbled by these two men willing to give their life for my entertainment. It is yet to be determined what will become of these warriors. I have seen many of a man come out of that ring never to be the same mentally after a brutal battle. I hope that these two men will have their light shine a little longer for the epic trilogy they gave me and us as boxing/sports fans.

Also, if you want to get a wrap of the fight I send you here:
NOMAS. The boys at No Mas do a great job in following the Sweet Science. I would also visit their shirt shop for they do have some of the dopest shirts around that you can purchase. These bloggers are NY'ers and have a bit of street cred to them so visit their sight and check out their small movies they make about boxing and also check out their art work. What I like about this site is that they are doing their writing and grinding form the ground up...they have no corporate sponsors or don't come from tons of money. So big shouts to the No Mas crew for keeping it real.

Also, if you want to see some brtual pictures of the fight: Click Here

Beauty

2008-02-27T11:05:00.000-08:00

There are those terms that mesh with a certin event that just fit. For instance, when watching soccer one can say, The Beautiful Game.

When two highly skilled boxers battle it out this Saturday on Showtime (not PPV) you will be witness to, Beauty.

Vazquez v. Marquez III

I can't tell you who is going to win. It is too close to call. But I will promise you this...it will be a barn burner.

Picture Dump

2008-02-21T08:49:00.000-08:00

Been a while since I did a picture dump. Here you go! As you can see...Ruby is the star of the show again. But there is a rare sighting of Uncle Joe with Barb in a few picture...facial hair for Uncle Joe...interesting.

I Know

2008-02-20T21:08:00.000-08:00

I remember it...
Sitting in the dark being lonely longing for family;

I know.

About living on campus broke...
so you live in the library for a month;

I know.

We all have sad stories of struggle...
some of us make it a habit of it;

I know.

Doing jobs to make ends meet...
jobs that a high school kid could have done;

I know.

But don’t you dare ever give up your childhood ability to dream...

...And How Sad It Is When We Stop Dreaming...

THAT I DO KNOW.

Blue

2008-02-18T21:50:00.000-08:00

So What...is that music?
Miles Davis in B-Minor.

Freedy Freeloader...at the door
It was a cold rainy one in NYC today

Blue to Green...is what happened when the sun showed
Some people even jumped with joy

All Blues...for some
The old crack head on the corner on 111th and 8th can’t find a score

Flamenco Sketches drawn on my pad
I draw things I’ve never seen in person...to live

All of this while blasting
Miles Davis: Kind of Blue

Why Do I Need A Valentine?

2008-02-14T12:19:00.000-08:00

Serious, why do I need a Valentine when my Mother sends me dope letters like this:

I LOVE YOU MIJO!!!

YOU'R THE JOY OF MY LIFE

HAVE A WONDERFUL VALENTINE'S DAY

Silence Is Ugly

2008-02-11T21:58:00.000-08:00

I seen her there...at the bar eating noodles
Caught her beauty...how could I not?
Walked passed
Came back
Went in

Days had passed since we spoke
Many Hours
Many Minutes
Too many seconds
The clock stood still for long times of
SILENCE.

Maybe our meeting was supposed to be.
I spoke fast and rapidly
She looked lost,
I felt broken
Mute.

Once we were a finely tuned orchestra
Our naked bodies danced violently together to Miles Davis
Naked bodies lay still to Frank Sinatra love songs
Mute.

How can something so beautiful and loud become…
UGLY SILENT!

Why I Love NYC

2008-02-11T11:40:00.001-08:00

CLICK HERE

NYC Hugs

2008-02-11T05:59:00.000-08:00

I lay in the dark in my little NYC room.
Such a small room to sleep in for such a big world

But in this world I hear Mozart, Vicente Fernandez, and Punjabi Jams
I’m worldly.
See.
All in this little room, my escape...my little place of Nirvana.

I had a wonderful dream that I was in London...how I love London
But the truth is that London could never hug me like New York
if so loving...why is it so lonely...I don’t know?

I don’t watch T.V.
I do listen to real life sitcoms
The black lady in the next building screams at her old man and kids
The Ghetto Jefferson’s I call them
I yell out the window, I love black people!!!
Then I blast James Brown out the window
I hear giggles from neighbors

See only New York can hug me

303

2008-02-09T13:05:00.000-08:00

John Coltrane’s song After The Rain is playing
How appropriate
It did rain today...or drizzled...too many words for it

I sometimes think of you walking the streets of New York
and wonder...
what happened to her, the one with the magical smile?

It’s the year of the rat.
They say it carries with it a water sign
Hope it doesn’t rain much more this year
Warm winter, long spring showers...days lost inside

Not a stalker or weirdo...too many of those in this city of 8 million
City of 8 million and its nice to know someone thinks about you
Now that isn’t creepy...is it?
No.

Sometimes I think I see you on a subway
Getting into a cab
Going into a store
Ghosts I say, and don’t give chase

Saw the flowers and thought of your smile.

Elections

2008-02-07T06:06:00.001-08:00

It seems that everyone is very excited over the voting election thing. We here at My Little City Blog laugh. This whole thing about voting for the lesser of two evils is crap.

But since everyone is all excited about who is running and stuff I thought I would send you to two blogs of people who care.

OTIS CARES
IGGY CARES

Female Friends

2008-02-06T12:43:00.000-08:00

Most of my female friends I annoy
But for some reason they stick around
Or is it I who stick around?

Have you ever heard that saying to treat woman as equals
Well I make sure and degrade them just as much as male friends.
That shirt looks like shit on you or go get some better shoes for that outfit

I’m straight.

I keep it real.

Vagina is always there for me, I don’t have to kiss ass to earn or get it

I embrace the post-modern
I’m cool like that and chicks dig I know the meaning
My old boss was a classmate and a pretty Jewish girl who I annoy

Most of my female friends consider me a good friend,
But I still very much annoy them

They often break out crying...I think this is where and why they love me.
I call them Mija and hug them and tell them everything will be fine

After all, it all comes back to daddy issues.

New Blogger Wife Crush

2008-02-05T07:30:00.000-08:00

I forgot to post this over here on my City Blog.

I hate to say good-bye to Mrs. Otis. Serious, she has been my blogger wife crush for a few years now. Maybe it is because her and Mr. Otis are so damn happy together and I can't be just the "CRUSH GUY" anymore. I must move on. It hurts, I will move on sometime soon and get over it. I think pain is one of those things that we all must go through when it comes to crushes....the pain will pass.

If you were wondering how this all came about so soon: CLICK HERE Yes, it hurt seeing this.

OK I've moved on.

There were two ladies that were high on the list of who would take Mrs. Otis' place. Mrs. GCox and Mrs. Tripjax. Both are nice Southern ladies (as was Mrs. Otis), they both talked to me in Vegas, and of course both are deeply in love with their husbands which leaves me on the outside looking in...I love to tourture myself.

In any case, here is my latest Blogger-Wife Crush.

PITW

2008-02-04T11:35:00.001-08:00

I tend to only pimp two blogs here at MY LITTLE CITY BLOG and they are these here: HERE and Here. But I just wanted to pimp a funny post by none other than POKER IN THE WEEDS. This post made me remember how old I'm getting. Serious.

Also, what ever happend to the working class shows. Not sure if you all remember that Mr. Carter use to sleep on this sofa bed with his wife. Now even he's a baller announcing the high limit poker games. But in all seriousness. Everyone has to be a baller now like The Rooster.

Also take notice that no TV show has its own show tune. Serious, give me at least five shows that have their own song now.

Hitler Was A Cowboys Fan?

2008-01-31T06:52:00.001-08:00

CLICK HERE:

Ruby In Town

2008-01-22T11:47:00.001-08:00

I'm very excited that Ruby will be in town this week. I hope that we get to spend some time together even if she is coming to conduct business. For those of you that don't remember...well I wrote about her on this humble blog HERE

What is there to say? Only that Ruby is a very talented lady who has had many write-ups on her work. Well I'm not sure when her art will be hitting NYC but I'm positive that she has something showing in Los Angeles right now.

I will make sure and post some pictures of us on the town. Holla!

Bobby Fischer Dead

2008-01-18T06:58:00.001-08:00

I was very sad to hear the news that Bobby Fischer has passed. As long time readers know I thought that Fischer was one of the greatest minds to ever play chess. I didn't agree with Fischer's view of the world...but God on the board this guy could create...a virtuoso of his craft.

If anyone has played chess seriously they have read something or heard legendary stories about Fischer. But his great battle of 21 games against Spassky has to be the greatest international wins for the United States. I put it right up there with the US Hockey team beating the Russians.

He was the youngest to ever reach the Grand Master title at 15. In the chess world that is like a 15 year old being the head of Microsoft or Apple.

In any case, I wish the man the best and hopefully he will find peace in the after life that he was never able to find here on earth.

Robert James "Bobby" Fischer (March 9, 1943 - January 17, 2008)

My Past Posts on Bobby Fischer: HERE

Random Pictures

2008-01-09T09:21:00.000-08:00

The Rooster and Rey "El Rey" Contreras. Need I say more about this photo.

This is the latest and greatest picture of my boots.

No, the WPBT Champion doesn't get Mrs. Tripjax. Yet, she has to be one of the hottest Blogger wives I have met and she was kind enough to take a picture with me. This picture in no way does this lady justice let me tell you. I think this was taken at 4am when her husband was running over the poker table and drunk as a skunk. I remember when Tripjax told me his wife was hot I was like...this inter-dweeb has got a hot wife...pifft. But he was so very right...Long Live The Tripjaxs Family. Here is the picture of all pictures...Holla! HERE

Me getting ready to eat some grub.

Getting ready to bet with the nuts...because The Rooster never bluffs.

Rey with some of the crew getting ready to make the long journey to Barcelona Bar.

Visit to Arizona Pictures

2008-01-07T20:46:00.000-08:00

This is a picture with my sister, Elena. What can I say, she is my heart and I miss her dearly and sometimes I wonder how we have been able to be apart for so many years.

This is a picture of the Queen Bee, my Mom and my sister. She is still my rock and best friend and there is nothing better than knowing that your mother is also your best friend. She can hear the first word out of my mouth on the phone and know where I'm at mentally...very cool.

My brother-in-law on the far left, me, Uncle Joe and my Pops. It was great seeing my Dad who has never really looked for attention for the important role he plays in the family...quiet and strong is how I look at him.

This is my brother-in-law, Tim with my nephew, Timmy. This is a great picture and was taken after Timmy got his new car that Tim built him from the ground up. My nephew is a good kid and never gives me problems...can I ask for anything more? Well yes, and I do, but I ride him because I believe in his potential.

This was one of the coolest gifts I got this x-mas. My Dad and Mom purchased this Rooster for me (and they also purchased this really nice sweatshirt) and I just thought it was the best....thank you Papa y Mami.

New Year Upon Us

2007-12-28T07:32:00.001-08:00

There is a new year upon us and it is time to go into the tank and ponder what I want to accomplish this coming year and look back at what I did and didn't accomplish. I'm one of those people that is into resolutions but I tend to do them on my birthday. Since my birthday is in May I figure that I might do a five month resolution this year in hopes of drafting another one come my birthday.

In any case, this year has been awesome and such a great time. I would list off what I'm thankful for but the truth of the matter is that I'm just happy with life right now and I'm sure that was a culmination of this past year combined with all the years in the past. Until next year I think this blog is going to sleep.

In closing, I might do one last photo dump of pictures from 2007 in review. Maybe that will show you all as to why this year has been so great for me...that sounds cool so be on the look out after this weekend.

It Has Been A While Time For Photo Dump

2007-12-27T15:27:00.000-08:00

This picture was taken of Lina and I this past weekend in the Az. Really sweet girl and I hope when the time rolls around for her to visit that everyone will show her a great time.

Ruby and I. Nuff said.

Me and the Cheese Romantic. Nuff said.

Camille!! I'm not sure if she is alive or not but this is an older picture of us that I thought I would post just in case she feels neglected.

The boys from Watsonville. Notice the shirt The Rooster has on. Nuff said.

A picture of Alex and I. He's the drummer for the group Mana. Mana is like the U2 of Latin America. Nuff said. That is just how The Rooster rolls.

Had to throw a picture in here of Elliot and his homie. Sorry boys, I think this girl is married now. But I met her man and he's a cool dude.

This is my favorite picture of Pinky that I've taken in a long while. This is when we were having our weekly dinner a couple of months ago.

Kaw-Kaw!!!

2007-12-10T13:27:00.001-08:00

I won the 4th annual WPBT Holiday Classic Tournament at the Venetian. I will have a full report to come but I'm really beat right now and just arrived from my red-eye. I will have a post up later today.

I know some of you have seen the drunken video of me on Pauly's blog. No longer will The Rooster rage solo is all I have to say to that. I was just joking on that video and really drunk so I hope people take it as pure humor and that is what it was intended for (click on the picture to see up close and also check out the John Deer mug in the backgroud).

RIP David Edward "Chip" Reese (March 28, 1951 – December 4, 2007)

2007-12-06T06:37:00.000-08:00

I have never idolized someone in my life. The closest thing I’ve ever had to an idol died two days ago, David “Chip” Reese. I never met Chip, never got to shake his hand; mostly I just wanted to thank him for the knowledge he dealt in his chapter on 7 Card Stud in Super System. And it goes without saying that our little game of cards has lost a giant in the game.

The pages of that chapter have been the most potent information ever dealt in a poker book….hands down. That chapter alone is better than many complete 7 Card Stud books that I have read. So much information is departed in that chapter that I have read it over 20 times….EASILY. I find myself often reading and trying to dissect Chip’s thought process and I try to hear his voice. I know, I know that may sound a bit odd and drastic but I honestly think to understand the many layers to that chapter you have to read it that way.

Yet one of the things I always heard and read about Chip was that he was an even tempered man. He was cool and calm even after losing a big hand. I also read that he had a huge presence about him when he walked into a room. Why wouldn’t he…the guy was above smart and probably the best damn poker player in the room.

In closing, I wish you the best in the after life Chip. Don’t forget to check raise big JC on the river after you hit the boat. Also, sorry it took me so long to write this but I really was in shock and found it hard to believe that you had passed. I’m sad we never got to meet but make sure and save me a seat and no need to poke at me, I know you are playing the perfect game for me and also playing my best games and I will pony up and take a shot.

Pauly's Truckin'

2007-12-04T08:57:00.000-08:00

One of the hardest working men on the blog scene is at it again. People know him by many names: Pauly, Dr. Pauly, Yo Paulie, The Good Doctor, Pauly Drama and his brother just refers to him as PAUL.

Here is the latest issue of Truckin and GCOX, Betty, and Johnny all have their stories published this month.

On another note, being that I'm an A-lister and people always ask me...what is Pauly Drama really like? Well I can only tell you besides being the hardest working man in bloggerland. Pauly Drama giving guy and fiercely loyal friend and that in my book is gold. When it comes to beer he will drink a lot of beers but his go to is Red Stripe. And if you get to know him and you get some girls to read his blog...well the time will come when the girl will let you see their boobs so you can confirm to Pauly that they are real(that is off the record by the way).

So enjoy the reading!!

Truckin' - Decemer 2007, Vol. 6, Issue 12

1. Santa by Paul McGuire
Santa nodded off on the subway. He did that often, always after he copped. Friends would often tell him that they saw him passed out on the subway. They’d try to get his attention, but he was in his own world... More

2. Christmas Eve Dinner by Betty After Dark
Her legs still weak and her stance a bit wobbly, I wrapped my arm around her and led her out of the restaurant. The hotel was just a few blocks away. She was shivering. Was it the cold air or the orgasm?... More

3. Kelso McQuire by Johnny Hughes
The gamblers always stand in the back at West Texas funerals. In the middle of Kelso McQuire's funeral, Ice House Henry was whispering around and telling this fifty-year old story about Kelso, that not one living, breathing soul had ever heard before... More

4. Scared Santa by Dwayne Williamson
This amorphous blob of blood red fabric and snow white hair would release these grunts from its maw that shook my rib cage, causing me to tremble even more violently than before. Because Santa Clause scared the holy hell out of me... More

5. The Hunt by Gary Cox
When the son was young, the Father went deer hunting every year for a week at a time, right before Thanksgiving. The boy badly wanted to go with him, but was never considered old enough. He saw in his Father’s eyes how much he enjoyed that time, whether it was the actual hunt or the solitary time spent out there in the woods... More

6. Monday Evening LIVE in Theater! by Sigge S. Amdal
A middle-aged, disillusioned, smack-ridden woman in a wheelchair bemoans her disability when the subway seems one step too far. By the touch of a button she whirls off into the distant tunnel like the depart of an ancient ghoul... MoreThis issue has a couple of holiday themed stories including a spicy tale from Betty After Dark. Johnny Hughes returns along with everyone's favorite Norwegian writer Sigge S. Amdal. This issue also features the debut of two new authors Gary Cox and Dwayne Williamson. And I have a little Santa story as well.

If you like this issue, then please tell your friends about your favorite stories. It takes a few seconds to pass along Truckin'. The writers certainly appreciate your support. Thanks again to everyone for wasting your precious time month after month with Truckin'.

Kinder Kind Of Love

2007-11-28T06:55:00.000-08:00

I was asked about my first kiss the other day. So I sat there and thought of the first girl I ever kissed in Kindergarten, Roxanne Sandoval. Do I really count this as my first kiss? Well yes. If I can remember then it counts and to be honest, I don’t remember much about my childhood.

I’m not sure how I got caught up in the kiss and chase game at such a young age but I do remember thinking she was just so beautiful with her pigtails and cute smile. OK I’m not sure if I thought she was beautiful at five, but she had to be cute at the very least. I’m sure if I look hard enough I will be able to dig up that picture where the whole class is put into little squares on a class picture and I’m sure it will reaffirm my belief.

In any case, I wondered what happened to Roxanne so I decided to Google her. Come on…who doesn’t do that these days? So much to my sadness I found this clip of her getting married…doh! I have say that she’s held it rather together all these years. Well I wish her and her husband the best. I love it how back home people just keep things simple and in the end it is love what they marry for. CHURCH!!

If you want to see Roxanne getting married well then CLICK HERE

Happy Birthday Squid

2007-11-07T11:29:00.000-08:00

As I walked through the door I could smell the odor. It was an odor of sadness that permeated the room. I scanned the room and found her sitting on the ground slumped over with her long limbs tangled. I knew what I had stumbled upon I had seen this pose before. A small trickle of semi-dry blood was on the inside of her right arm with a syringe close by. This was the sadness that I had smelled upon my entrance. Squid could never outrun her demons.

The thing about junkies is that you expect to see this scene sometime down the road so you prepare for it mentally. But in reality you are never prepared. A grim reminder of what a pure bag of heroin or too much heroin in one fix could do. My reaction was to walk over and stare. This wasn’t the movies where one walks in and tries desperately to revive the junkie. She was dead. I stood and stared at her past battle scars which riddled her arm and her beautiful face which had aged with her addiction. At that moment I thought of how sad; for at birth she was her parents pride and joy. Now she was a dead junkie.

I wanted to move her into a better position like laying her on the bed for when the cops and ambulance arrived. I opted to reach over and close her eyes. Although the drugs had ravaged her body she was still so beautiful even in death. The cops arrived and took my statement and even commented on what a shame it was to see a beautiful girl go out like this.

Me, well I like to think that Squid is up flying with the clouds and kissing them. That she was set free of her demons here on earth and given a new chance in the sky above. That the sun comes up for her every morning and she smiles as it touches her face. She would have been 35 today.

I wanted to wish you a happy birthday, Squid. Sorry to write this after so many years but I got a call reminding it was your birthday today, your Mom misses you much. Today as I walk out into the world I will look to the clouds and hope that you are flying up there. And when the sun goes down that you are sleeping with the angels.

Uncle Jerry

2007-11-05T04:25:00.001-08:00

I go the news that my uncle has cancer. I’m somewhat quiet when it comes to my family crisis. Yet, in this case I can’t keep quiet. My uncle is a proud man. He is a good man and one I consider to be a friend. At first glance one might think of him as a character (and he is) but he is so much more complex than people give him credit for. He enlisted in the Army at 16 to go to Nam. At the time he was the youngest soldier registered in the US Army and this is an actual fact that can be traced. I guess at that time it was common for a young man to lie about his age to register for the US services. I suppose that is a far cry from today and how we look at war but a different time and a different agenda I suppose. In any case, I suppose this was just on my mind and eating away at me since I lost my grandmother to cancer. I guess I just wanted to wish my Uncle Jerry the best with his fight with cancer. Nothing more needs to be said for he wouldn’t want me to be a man of many words when it came to this.

John "The General" Lee's Birthday

2007-09-24T20:21:00.000-07:00

These are just some random pictures from John Lee's gatherings. Well it was suppose to be a few people but you know how that goes. When someone is well liked such as John...everyone rolls through.

Picture of Danny, Helena, and John

Picture of Narissa and John

Elliot chilling and friend chilling

This is The General and me

Some of the girls at the party

Picture of Lisa and me

Just a random picture of folks chilling

Pre-Drinks...Holla!

Danny with his brew

The Boys...HOLLA!!!

Zo and Elvira...Dec. 29th is the date people!!!

The customary Mexican tequila shot

John Lee's sista

A Few Pictures

2007-08-30T11:55:00.001-07:00

This picture is one of my favorites even if I look like a dork. This is Maudie in her I'm so embarrassed pose. I'm not sure what I told her to make her get as such...wink! Miss you Maudie!

RUBY!! It has been a while since I have spoken to Ruby but she is my favorite artist in the whole world. This is a picture we took together when we crossed paths some time ago. So funny how the world is. One day you are hanging with your buddy in undergrad and the next moment she is some big artist.

Pinky and me at her graduation. It was a good time and this is a good picture of us. Sure this picture was taken about 2 years ago and not that recent...but I thought I would post it anyways...nuff said.

Guns. Nuff said.

This is one of my favorite pictures. Serious, this is my sister taking some target practice. We use to shoot a Bow and Arrow back in the day as kids. Of course the equipment she uses now is much better. But as odd as this may seem to some, my sister taught me about hunting and living off the land. I'm not sure if I should say this here because I don't want to scare anyone, but my sister is pretty handy with the steel if you know what I mean.

Sahar! Another old friend from UCLA who was in the city the other night. What can I say, Sahar is one of the most interesting people you will ever meet. She is smart, well read, and just a good hearted person. We have managed to keep in touch all these years and I still very much hold her in high regard which says something about this girl.

This picture was sent by one of my loyal readers, Camille Salas...what up, Camille. This picture was not altered or anything. This really did take place down in Texas. Word!

Chillin In The Office

2007-08-27T11:21:00.001-07:00

Here are a few pictures of me in the office. The first picture is of me in on the weekend. Notice that I'm rocking them dope gem Adidas.

Second picture is of me today. Yep, needed to post a picture of me all relaxed and rested from my trip to HERE that is just the way I roll. If you don't know, now you know. But in all honesty, I wanted to thank John "The General" Lee and Frank "The Damn Yankee" Walsh for the invite down. It was nice spending time with you two MOFO's.

One of my cool boots that Pinky bought me for my birthday. Church! I try to sport these as much as possible. They can function as going out shoes also...double the function for the price of one...CHURCH!

Pinky's Birthday Last Week!!

2007-08-26T22:18:00.000-07:00

I haven't had time to write about Pinky's birthday party and I probably should have done so the night of. Yet, I didn't so here I am doing as such now.

This the first party for Anita that I haven't planned in some years and I must admit, it was a bit strange but I thought she did a great job in her invite list, evite card choice and also her super cool follow up letter.

I think when you invite a small amount of people to your party and they all show that should give you a good understanding of the light people hold you in. So it was no surprise to me that just about every single person that Anita invited showed. I suppose the one thing that I don't say enough so I shall say it here:

Anita,

You are a great friend and I'm sure everyone who attended your party would agree. Your heart is probably the only thing that can outshine your magical smile and I wish you continued success at your job and in your life. You have been my best friend for so many years that I can't list the ways you have helped me become a better person who is a bit more calm and understanding. So this little write up falls short in terms of length and substance to what I owe your friendship. Yet, I feel if anyone can read between the lines as to what I mean it is you. So happy birthday, Cucks and may this year be the best one yet.

Photo Dump

2007-08-20T20:52:00.000-07:00

Of course there has to be a picture of Rey "El Rey" Contreras in this picture dump. A good shot of Rey and Alina with her new cool hairdo.

This picture is for Derek over at poker in the weeds. Viva Hulkamaniacs!! On a side note, was there anyone bigger than the Hulkster back in the 80's? How many athletes can say they could sell out a whole Stadium night after night with everyone wearing his/her shirt? Serious?

Although it says that one shouldn't ride between the cars...well I would have to disagree in three instances. One, there you get caught in a car with no air conditioning (which should never happen because you should take note that there is nobody in the car) this happens from time to time and you should move to the next car. Two, you get stuck in a car with a homeless guy who has passed out and done his business in that car. Three, you had a long night with the boys/girls and you get sick on the ride and need to hurl.

This is a classic picture that most people take when they are in Grand Central. Most people will say, I will meet you at the clock in Grand Central and it is understood that this is the clock....there is another clock which is similar which is downstairs but this is the one that people mean.

This picture is just something I took at the crab festival that John "The General" Lee and myself went to in Long Island City. It was a good time and the crabs were tasty.

Took this picture in the .99 cent store in Chinatown.

Rey "El Rey" Contreras and I went to have Sushi and this was our beer of choice. Hey, you can't go wrong at a Sushi place that has 1/2 price off all drinks or two for one...Sweet!!

This is a picture of Rey "El Rey" Contreras who took a picture with Flo who was in from Italy. Twas good times hanging with Flo during her visit.

A painting of "The Boys"...Nuff said!

A picture of "Poncho" The Texas Armadillo! There are a few things you should know about Poncho. First, that he really was bought in Texas by Adri and it was given to me as a gift. Second, Poncho really is Catholic as his chain indicates. Three, Poncho will surprise you in many ways...if you come back to this blog again you will see why.

I never thought I would see the day...but the N&R (which I say stands for Never Runs) have new trains. Thus, I took a picture for all to see.

MORENO ON TV!!!!!

2007-08-15T15:21:00.000-07:00

I don't like to gas my friends such as Robyn...but I will do as such for you, my thousands or readers...cough!cough! In any case, I remember when Robyn arrived to NYC and had just taken a job with Latina Magazine...my times have changed (I'm proud of you Robyn). In any case, if you want to see the clip with her giving Roker ways to shop. Oh, I thought it was funny how Robyn was giving tips on how to shop for kids when she doesn't have any...humor. In any case, here is the clip of one of the nicest girls around...Click Here

Photo Dump?

2007-08-13T21:36:00.001-07:00

Adri with the Asian peace sign.

This was a nice bottle of Tequila provided by none other than Derek. As Derek would say, Viva La Tequila....crush!

I think that I posted this picture with the Julie in the past. But if not or if I did...well there is nothing wrong with a double post of Julie. Joaquin calls for Julie circa 2000...please!!!

Zo and his futre wife...she is just so pretty and Zo is one lucky Mofo because not only is she pretty but his lady has so much class. Dallas in Dec for Zo and Elvira's wedding...book it!

This is my jersey for when I tried out for the Mexican National soccer team. Didn't make the squad but I gave it a go.

Speaking of people getting married. This picture was taken of two very super cool people who were nice enough to invite me to their home for dinner and drinks. I can't say too much here but they are getting married soon and I'm not sure how this guy got so lucky. Whit and Bob...wish you two the best! I loved the dancing in the living room...Crush!

This is a picture of the dinner party. Good people and good conversation.

Wilmot Mwandanda at his new bar, The Space. Crush! I'm so happy that Wilmot opened his own place. Serious, Wilmot is one of those guys that just worked hard and saved and was able to venture off on his own. So very happy and proud to call him a friend. Here is the linke to THE SPACE

This is a picture of me and my cousin, Lupini. It was so fun hosting Lupini when she came from Mexico. I really can't wait till she comes back! Prima...te estoy esperando aqui en Nueva York...ya sabes que aqui tienes tu casa. Un gran abrazo de tu primo, Joaquin.

Break dancers, yo! This break dancing competition just broke out of nowhere. It was fun and a great party. Church!!

New Picture Dump

2007-08-07T21:36:00.001-07:00

Pimpin Michelle Herrera Mulligan

2007-07-31T10:46:00.000-07:00

As most of you know, The Rooster doesn't tend to pimp people's work...except my own. Being that I only tend to the A-Lister's of the world I thought I would post this book that was just released by my friend and comadre, Michelle Herrera Mulligan. This is her second collaboration with her own book coming out very soon...or so I hope (I just crossed my fingers). So if you have a chance you might want to check it out and pick it up at your local book store or just ask your local book store if they carry it...maybe they will pick it up.

Real Quick: Michelle is without a doubt one of the sweetest and most hardworking girls I know. She is always caught up in about four projects and three of those do not pertain to her, she just likes to help out good causes. So if you like good reading and would like to help out one of the good people in the world I suggest you pick up her book.

Juicy Mangos, the first ever collection of erotica stories written by and for Latinas, is out this week! It's been a labor of love for seven incredible, award-winning writers, and critics and authors are taking notice. The book is edited by Michelle Herrera Mulligan, the co-editor of Border-Line Personalities: A New Generation of Latinas Dish on Sex, Sass, and Cultural Shifting, and features Sofia Quintero, Elisha Miranda, Mayra Montero, Mayra Santos-Febres, Yxta Maya Murray, and Adriana Lopez.

As best-selling author Zane says, "Do not read this in bed or your sheets just might catch on fire. It is that hot!" And it's not just sexy: Pulitzer-Prize-winning-author of The Mambo Kings Sing Songs of Love Oscar Hijuelos called it an "amazingly well done collection of stories...not only a tantalizing read, but a deeply rewarding one as well."

So get out to your local bookstore or go to amazon.com or bn.com and order your copy now! (If you do order the book, please review online. Each review and comment counts, I swear!)

If you are based in New York City, get your copy signed at one of the following exciting events, all of which are absolutely free!

1) August 8 Sofia Quintero, Elisha Miranda, and Michelle Herrera Mulligan will be reading from their stories at this amazing independent bookstore: Starts at 6 p.m Hue-Man Books, 2319 Frederick Douglass Blvd., Between 124th and 125th Streets. Take the A, B, C, D, 2.3 to the 125th street stop or take the West Side Highway (9A), 125th street exit. Hue-Man bookstore is next to Magic Johnson Theatre.

2) August 9 Sofia, Elisha, and Michelle will be reading at Barnes and Noble in the boogie-down Bronx!!! 7 p.m. at Barnes and Noble in the Bronx, Barnes & Noble, 290 Baychester Avenue, Bronx, NY 10472, 718-862-3945.

3) August 15 Elisha and Michelle will be featured as part of the hot In the Flesh series! Here are the details: From juicy mangos to sex on Fire Island and more, August's In The
Flesh takes into the bedroom and beyond with steamy stories from some
of New York's naughtiest (plus a visiting guest from Minneapolis).
Featuring John Blesso (Sharehouse Confidential), Perry Brass (Carnal
Sacraments), Catherine Lundoff (Crave), Elisha Miranda (The Sista
Hood), and Michelle Herrera Mulligan (Juicy Mangos). Hosted by erotic writer and editor Rachel Kramer Bussel (He's on Top, She's on Top, Caught Looking). Free candy and cupcakes will be served and authors books will be available for sale. IN THE FLESH EROTIC READING SERIES. 8 PM., AT HAPPY ENDING LOUNGE, 302 BROOME STREET, NYC, (B/D to Grand, J/M/Z to Bowery, F to Delancey,
http://www.happyendinglounge.com) Free admission
Happy Ending Lounge: 212-334-9676
http://inthefleshreadingseries.blogspot.com

4) August 16 Juicy Mangos selected for Las Comadres Book Club! Join us at Borders books at 10 Columbus Circle for a discussion on the themes raised in Juicy Mangos diverse, complex stories. Starts at 6:30 p.m. Take the A, B, C, D to Columbus Circle.

5) August 23 Are you an aspiring erotica writer? Come see successful, published erotica writers Rachel Kramer Bussel, Sofia Quintero, and Elisha Miranda for advice on how to write amazing love scenes and to break into the world of erotica writing. Michelle Herrera Mulligan moderates.7 p.m., Blue Stockings bookstore, Lower East Side of Manhattan at 172 Allen Street between Stanton and Rivington, wwww.bluestockings.com.

6) September 13 Watch professional actors perform scenes from Juicy Mangos at our book release party! Co-sponsored by Sister Outsider Entertainment. 7-10 p.m Lava Gina, 16 Ave C (betw. 7th & 8th Sts) - New York NY 10009, 212-477-9319 - f 212-982-0489.

For more info about the events or the book, visit myspace.com/juicymangosbook.

Another Picture Dump

2007-07-30T20:48:00.001-07:00

My Family Part 3

2007-07-25T19:36:00.001-07:00

This first picture is of a Burro. We tend to get these things at the local market or on trips to Mexico when we drive across the border. There is nothing more that says you are Mexican than if you have one of these in your front lawn or in your garden.

I took this picture in my father's moving F-150 truck. As you can see...my hometown is just beautiful. If you click on the picture you can probably get a better view of the rolling mountains that are located in my town. But if you are wondering if all those hues of green were done with photo shop...nope...that is just home being home.

This picture is three prong. First is the rolling mountains again. Aren't they just beautiful? Nuff said. Then if you look real close you can see a white line at the foot of the mountains. Those are flower green houses. Our area is well known for its flowers also. These companies tend to be run by Japanese families that have lived in the area since they were released from the WWII camps. Then you see raspberry fields. I grew up working in these fields and I worked in the fields until my second year of college. I know, I know, sounds odd but there was no fancy internship for me...just good hard labor.

This is one of my favorite pictures. Yep, the good old nopal tree. Every home or side of the road has to have one. This was taken on the side of road but we do have one of these at my home. A bit smaller but none the less...and like the Donkey above, no Mexican home is complete with out at least one cactus. And if you have a Mexican friend who doesn't have at least one cactus plant at their home....well then they ain't really Mexican. Not a stereotype...just speaking the truth people.

This picture is my mother with her comadre, Cindi. Cindi is a wife, 3rd grade teacher, social activist, community activist, artist (both theater and paint), and she is family. Cindi and her husband David have been married for many years and have settled in this little town called San Juan Bautista. A cute little mission town where their home has been deemed a state landmark. I obviously can rant and rave about both David and Cindi but in the end what I can say is not only are they friends but they are family and nothing trumps that. In any case, this picture was taken at Cindi's birthday party.

Yes, it is true...country folk do tend to pull out the violin at parties. For those of you who are thinking of learning Spanish. The guy on the violin is like 100% white and he sang Cindi an old Mexican Folk song for her birthday...yes, in Spanish. OK so he grew up in a Mexican town and all...but there is hope if you want to learn Spanish.

Here is my Mom and some guy in Cindi's acting troop raising the roof. Yes, we party morning, noon and night.

Oh, I took this picture for Pauly Drama. But Did I mention that Cindi and David are also Dead Heads.

I saved this picture for last for several reasons. But the first and most important is that you know that you are at a Mexican birthday when the Virgin de Guadalupe is the candle on the cake.

In closing, I hope you have gotten a glimpse of my people and what makes me...well...The Rooster. Good family, good friends, and love. I wanted to thank my Mommy and Daddy for putting up with me on my visit. Uncle Joe for driving up from LA to keep the family bond strong...and also all our family friends who have known me since I was a kid and always take time to make the trip to my parents to see me to say hello.

A Night with Change100, Pauly Drama and Derek

2007-07-25T08:08:00.000-07:00

I got a text from Derek informing me that Pauly Drama and Change100 were coming into the city for the weekend. Of course I was rather pumped because I had some bad beats to talk to about with PD, Change100 and Derek. I was hoping that they would be willing to post them on their blog so people could add in the comments what they thought of the hands I played and how I played them. Wait, I have a poker blog, maybe I will put my beats up here...haha!

In any case, since Pauly Drama is now bi-coastal I figured he needed to close some business and pick-up his mail. If case you were wondering, yes, this is how the jet-setters or other half live. I just get the close up camera view, but in the end I'm on the outside looking in. Yes, I'm a monkey in a suit that sits in a cube.

The good thing about PD still having roots in the NYC is that I know when he comes to town he always sets aside time for a few drinks with the A-Lister's (cough!cough! and I raise my hand). But even better than that is that PD enjoys grabbing some beers in my hood and he’s a bar troll like me. Viva The DP!! I always find it rather odd that PD enjoys hitting a lot of places in one night...I always figured him to be that strange guy sitting in the corner writing in his little book. But I'm happy PD is a bar troll and I was even more happy to hear that his hotel was right around the corner from the one and only, YOGI’s.

So I head off to Yogi’s and I arrived a few minutes late and I see Derek, Change100 and PD as I enter. DP asks me if I want to stay and have a beer there. As if you didn’t know the response to that question? Twist my arm and make me yell uncle...but of course. So we order a round and I think to myself, Let The Drinking Begin!!

For those of you that don’t know the history behind one of my favorite drinking places in NYC known as Yogi's. Well basically it is the only bar that plays country music 24/7. So we are sitting next to two guys who are chewing tobacco and spitting it into a shot glass (I found the practice rather odd myself). So I’m singing along to every damn song that comes on and they ask me who’s singing the song. So I’m telling him who singing the song that is playing, what album and the year it was released. Of course Derek and PD have seen this routine before but they always get a kick out of it and are standing on the sidelines laughing as I go into my Billy Martin rant. I think Change100 is a bit in shock...poor-poor Change. Maybe she thought the rumors of me being a country boy are a joke or maybe she was hoping they were. Either way, now you know, Change100! The Rooster is a hick...thank you Baby Jesus for that.

I digress. So one of the young bucks asks me about how much of the music box I know. I spout off 90% and he calls BS. I rattled off who was singing the current song playing and what year it came out. I gave him the HMIC (Head Mexican In Charge) cadence so I think he believed me. I probably know about 95% come to think of it...cough!cough! Yes, that does include Country Rock which is still country music in my book. I'm an expert in that area also...and I will take G-Rob and my good buddy Todd Jeffcoat on in a heads-up Country Rock Trivia game. Wait, both guys have families and so I don’t want to take their money. Here are the young bucks that I had to school on country music.

So off we go in search of more bars. The next bar we head over to is around the corner and is this Latino Fusion place. I wanted to go there because from what I read about Change100 is that she likes to try new things and they have this great white sangria there. For those of you who are looking for eye candy on the UWS I highly suggest you hit this place. I was happy that Change100 liked the drink and we were off and running to the next bar.

We hit the next bar which has about 50 beers on tap. One night my roomie and I stumbled in there and we then proceeded to try and drink every beer on tap. He started at one end and I at the other. By the time we had drank five beers the bartenders were betting on us and who could go the furthest. Of course I got up on the stool and started to yell at the bar to bet on me because everyone wanted action on my roomie. I had to get the crowd on my side and what better way to show them how agile I was on the swivel chair. Shortly after they asked us to leave after my outbreak. In any case, we had a quick two beers there and we were off to the next bar.

Well this is where is starts to get ugly. If you don’t like sad stories and see me as an angel stop reading here...thanks Mom.

Well we are sitting outside because it is a beautiful night in the city at the Dead Poet Bar. This bar is an Irish Bar where they have poems and saying by Irish poets on the wall (On a side note, my friend Julie is the first girl to have her name on the wall for 100 Guinness’s drank at the place). This is also a place where another time Pauly and I met an aspiring actress who had just done a dog food commercial. Nice girl, to bad I called her a B-Lister for her representation.

Moving on...o.k. so we are sitting there and I see this little kid walking by with a book in his hand. Yep, the new Harry Potter Book had just been given out to him. I looked at my watch and it read 12:30am.

Conversation as follows:
Me: Hey, hey, did you just get the HP Book.
Kid: With huge smile nods yes.
Dad in Excited Voice: Yeah, we just got it around the corner at Barnes and Nobel.
Me: Hey, let me take a picture of you with the book.
(Dad nods to kid that it is ok)

Here is the kid and his new book:

Me to Kid: Hey, I have to tell you something.
Kid Looks at me with a smile.
Me: I illegally downloaded the book for free and read it and let me tell you, Harry Potter and Hermione die.

Kid looks and me and face goes all wrong and I mean all wrong...he starts to cry right there on the spot. I look over at PD, Change100 and Derek for help but I get none (Mo Rivera where are you...I'm in a jam). The father is pissed off and people around me are telling me obscene things that I can’t type here. I was a bit in shock that this went all wrong. The Dad just grabs his kids hand and says, “Thanks Jerk.”

Needless to say that put a damper on the night. We left the rest of our beers and headed out of dodge. The people next to use were really pissed that I upset the kid. I don’t know, I thought I was doing a service to kid so he wouldn’t go through all the shock of reading it. I was trying to lessen the blow.

After that we called it a night. We figured that we should just cap it.

Coming next…my last night out with A-Lister’s at an A-Lister’s place. I'm even going to Live Blog It!!

Photo Dump

2007-07-23T20:20:00.000-07:00

I thought I would do a photo dump since it has been a while since I have done one. I wanted to write a bit about every single one of these events but I thought by write ups might not do the time and pictures justice...thus, I will just post them.

Harry Potter

2007-07-19T09:20:00.001-07:00

I just completed the new Harry Potter Book which I downloaded from online. You thought the Sopranos ending was odd…Poor Harry and Hermione die. What was the writer thinking?

My People II

2007-07-11T18:13:00.000-07:00

As aforementioned I am going to break up my post into 3 parts when it comes to giving you, the reader, a little glimpse of my family back in Watsonville, Ca.

This is my cousin Tony. What can I say, it is a blessing that he's with us today. Tony was and is one of my favorite cousins. As a kid he use to put on gloves on me and let me throw leather at him while he just tried to slip punches. Take note that I said, tried to slip punches....haha! He is married to a beautiful woman and if you see my cousins from my previous post...the taller one is one of his two beautiful daughters.

Steve, the guy by him is a family friend who has been around for a long time. We have an annual fund raiser at Steve's house yearly where we have carnitas and a horseshoe throwing tournament to raise money for the local little league. Steve has a beautiful wife, Monica who was getting over an illness and wasn't able to make this event. But they are both staples at my families functions because they are family.

The next picture is of my Uncle Joe. Shit, what can I say about Uncle Joe that you don't already know those of you who know me. Uncle Joe lives in LA and is my mother's little baby brother. He use to take me to concerts as a kid and we still hit one from time to time when we are in the same city. Without a doubt Uncle Joe is one of the main components of our family glue now that my grandmother passed away. He makes it a point to travel to see everyone and calls everyone from time to time which is cool. I sometimes think that Uncle Joe should have a three page post about our stories or his very own chapter in my next book. Not enough could be said nor can my words do Uncle Joe any justice to be honest.

The dog in the picture is my folks dog named, Pepe. He's a good dog and a bit hyper but I think that is because he's young. My folks like this dog which is cool because if you know Mexicans they are willing to give a dog away from one day to the next or accidentally lose him at the park...cough!cough!

This picture is of a flower my grandmother left us. My grandmother had a huge garden and would basically grow these plants from a little stem she would steal from someone else's plants. She would just kindly ask to take a little piece and she would grow it in a cup at first and it would just take off. So although my grandmother is no longer around I look at these flowers and I'm reminded of her.

This last page is what country people do. We just sit out back, drink beers and of course sing Mexican music all night long. That is my uncle Jerry on the guitar and my Dad belting out a little diddly. As kids I remember when my father use to go to my uncle Rudy's (Tony's father) and they would play well into the night and laugh, sit around drinking and playing the guitar. Fond memories that I didn't know would mean so much to me today. I miss those jam sessions.

My People

2007-07-02T18:02:00.000-07:00

The following three posts will be about my family and my trip home in early May. It was such a special trip for so many different reasons that the trip deserves at least three posts.

I haven't written in a long while about my people. I really do think that they deserve more ink on my city blog so I am going to post a lot about them and who we are. When you grow up in close quarters where everyone knows everyone there is a code of silence that takes place where one doesn't give away too much information about the inner-circle. It is a code that is known and nobody talks about. I don't think it is just a Mexican thing but maybe more a small town country thing.

The following pictures were taken of my family on my trip home. I hope this might give you a little glimpse of me and where I'm from.

This picture is of me and my folks. What can I say, they have always been there for me through thick and thin. I know that a lot of people say that and it is probably true, most parents will go to no end for thier children. Myself, well lets just say that as a youth I pushed that envelope as far as it could be pushed. Yet, no matter how much I pushed it they were always in my corner.

This is myself, random bar girl, Uncle Joe (sitting next to her) and of course David Rodriguez. I can go on and out about my Uncle Joe but I will get to him in post number 2. But about my buddy Dave...first, we go back...I mean way back. Through all the years there is one thing about Dave that I have always respected above and beyond everything, he respects the sacred oath of friendship. Even as kids Dave was the one guy who really understood this oath...no matter who he was dating, where he had to be, and whoever his newer friends were, Dave never broke that sacred oath. Dave might seem like a guy who might break when under the hot light, but there is one thing that Dave never was and never will be, A Fucken Rat...his bond is thick as blood. Thank you for being my friend, Dave.

Speaking of oaths and friendship. The following picture is of my Dad who recently had to lay one of his good friends to rest. I can't comment too much on this topic because I don't know all the details (and I think I would be out of line by saying too much), but I think my father was rather upset that Big Dave didn't get the proper send-off that he deserved. Big Dave was a long-time fixture at my house and a huge fight fan. On this night of the DeLaHoya v. Mayweather fight, my Dad gathered everyone in the back yard to give Dave the proper 10 count. To those who don't know the significance of the 10 count, well it is kind of the highest honor a boxer can get after he passes.

My father said something to this extent: "As we all know Big Dave passed and I want to give him the proper 10 count that he deserves. Because we were all fans of Big Dave, as we know he was a big fight fan and a fighter in life...and every fan deserves to send off one of their favorite fighters so I would like to send Big Dave off with a 10 count."

My Dad said it much better, but it gave me a rare glimpse of my Dad. As strong of a statement as it was and an honor for him to perform the 10 count, it showed me a softer side of my Dad that one doesn't see on display for the pulic.

These two picture are of my little cousins. What can I say, good looks run in the family. Both of these girls are my heart not only because they are family, but because they just have hearts of gold. I hadn't really seen them in years but they were quick with a hug, quick to catch me up about their lives, and all that I had missed out on these past years.

Other Pictures

2007-06-11T15:35:00.001-07:00

I can't put into words what a visit from my little cousin, Little Sarah (AKA The Baby) meant to me. To say that it made my year would be an understatement. To have family visit is always a joy but to have the "Little Saucey" one in NYC...well you know it is going to be a good time and some funny stories will transpire. Of course pictures won't do the visit justice and many moments were missed by my camera. Yet, I hope through the pictures you will get the fun and excitement I had by have The Baby here for a week.

Sarah gets off the plane and of course the night is already in full swing. We go have some pizza at the newest NYC pizza joint that people are saying will be a long stay. Pizza was good and you can see John "The General" Lee in the background.

Of course to many this will be just another picture in front of Tom's. The place made famous by Seinfeld, but I didn't know this was Sarah's favorite TV show of all time so that made the visit rather special.

We made it down to little Italy and took a picture in front of one of my favorite cheese houses in NYC. The stuff they get here is sent straight from Italy...as I like to say, it doesn't get any realer than this. CHURCH!

This was The Baby and Myself on the town. So she got the better of the genes but damn we both look good...wink!

This last picture is of The Baby with the local bartender at our favorite dive bar in the hood.

I liked this picture because it was of some of NYC finest hip hopers who have yet to be signed to a label as of yet. But when they blow The Baby can say she knew them when. I guess I should also tell you that we saw Fabulous the rapper at Macy's.

This picture has a lot of meaning. Of course Rey would never be caught dead with this shirt and his powersuit jacket. But he put it on to be a sport and this will forever be known as the powersuit picture.

What can you say, The Baby and Moon who was kind enough to read her palm for her. Although he said she needed some more years for her lines to be a bit more defined he did a good job in his reading. She's a Ramirez so this will equal a long life.

We were walking by the musical Hairspray and this guy came out the side door for some air. They were about to start the show but he was kind enough to take a quick picture with The Baby.

This is another picture of John "The General" Lee with The Baby but I think we were at a bar here.

This was probably my favorite picture of the week. Nuff said. For more photos of our weekend you can click here

2007-06-04T19:55:00.000-07:00

Here is a picture of the group I call the, A-Listers. This is before we ate at The Palm for Pauly Drama's new gig that never happend. In any case, I wrote about that before but here is what a group of A-Listers looks like before a good dinner on the town.

Picture at Florencia 13 for dinner and Danny's family in town. I figure I will throw in a picture of the owner's son, L-Dog. Good times had by all this night.

Two random girls on the city...I think these girls went to some second-tier graduate school call Wharton for their MBA.

This is the Acosta family chillin in the NYC.

Juanito y Danni just chillin at F13. Needless to say these were the last sober pictures I have of everyone.

Picture of Claire and Danny's mother. Good times when two old friends get together.

This is a picture of everyone together. A few people didn't jump into the picture but they were on the side.

A little family toast to everyone who joined us that night.

Of course we were here for Mama and Papa Acosta's aniversary.

But we were also here for my main man, J-Dog. Good times and keep an eye on this kid, he will be going places in his life.

More Photos Please

2007-04-17T21:47:00.000-07:00

Time For Pictures

2007-04-16T20:22:00.000-07:00

Pimpin' Mrs. Otis (with no disrespect to the Otis clan)

2007-03-12T07:20:00.000-07:00

It has been a while since I have read a post that has really touched me. Something that has made me say...holly crap! Something that has really moved me to the point where I'm not so much in tears, but more in awe of someone putting themselves out there.

Thus, if you really want to read something moving you might want to hit Mrs. Otis and you will see where Mr. Otis got his writing SKILLZ. Here we were thinking that Otis was the best writer in that household...but I'm starting to wonder. I will say this, if you ever read the moving post about Otis and playing cards with his father which you can findHERE I know that Mrs. Otis will move you with her post.

Seeing Old Friends

2007-02-25T21:47:00.000-08:00

It never ceases to amaze me what some of my friends have accomplished in their lives. I've always been humbled by their accomplishments inside and outside the work environment. So it was a great to reunite with my old friend Ruby Osorio and learn of her accomplishments in the art world and I am very proud of her. Ruby is currently showing her work here in NYC and I just wanted to post some of her art here on my blog. You can read about her and her works at these following locations:

http://www.squeezeoc.com/squeezeoc/2005/11/01/goingout
/arttheater/article_741863.php
http://www.contemporarystl.org/ce_rubyosorio.php

I'm sorry that I don't know how to use this new system of blogger to link articles with words. I shall learn to do this ASAP.

There is so much I can say about Ruby...yet, I do not think one word or witty saying would capture her...for she is without a doubt has one of the more unique spirits/souls I have known in my lifetime. So here is Ruby and her art...enjoy!

No More Party For Mr. Party

2007-01-16T18:08:00.000-08:00

As some of you know, and other individuals don't: The Rooster has decided to take some time away from the bottle. Yep, I have given up drinking. What can I say, it was time to do it, and to be honest it hasn't been easy and has made me cranky from time to time. I also tried hard to give up coffee and soda, although I have had two sodas and three small cups of coffee in the last fifteen days, which in my opinion isn't a bad thing.

I know some of my friends think that this change has been a bit drastic and they have wondered what has brought it on. I suppose many things such as nights of just not remembering all the details, spending too much money on booze and one good scolding from an old friend. Thus, just an accumulation of things has brought on this change. Oh, did I mention that I was getting mad chubs.

These things aren't easy to write to be honest and as much as it is therapeutic, well it is a bit painful and embarrassing. Yet, I feel that writing this is the best way to get it out. I guess that's what this here blog is for. I mean you have to do the math and maybe you will understand. I have been hitting the party scene (check pictures below) since I was about 15 years old. So you can see how long I have been at this and I think my body just said...I need a rest, Rooster. So here I am on the wagon and when out with friends on the town I sit there ordering cranberry juice...haha! Who would have ever thought? I try not to bring down the mood with my abstinence from drinking but I can see it weighs on some of my friends, and for that I say, sorry.

I know all the hoopla over me stopping will end soon. And the sooner the better to be honest. I come from a drinking family to be honest and everyone one in my family likes a good party (except maybe my mom and sister). That is just what I grew up around, it was always just a given that you would drink when you were with family and friends. In many ways it was second nature. But sometimes you just need a break and that is where I am now and the sooner the hoopla is over the easier it will be for me. For hearing friends laugh and call me a faker is kind of hard to deal with when there are beers in front of you to drink.

Also, did I mention that eating right and running everyday also sucks. Dear God, can I have a big plate of ribs soon. Serious, eating right and watching calories is something that has been hard to do and I've slipped only a few times. But I do lay the blame mostly on the Hooters girls in Atlantic City who gave me some free wings because I charmed them when they messed up my order...cough!cough!

In closing, I just wanted to thank my friend, Melissa for giving me a "nice scolding" about my drinking. Mel, I do wish there was a way I could repay you for your kind scolding words to clean up my act. I send you good vibes and you are entitled to a free dinner when you are in NYC again.

Here is a picture of Mel and I.

Mas Fotos

2007-01-05T20:55:00.000-08:00

Not Sorry...but still more pictures

2007-01-03T16:33:00.000-08:00

Sorry More Pictures

2007-01-02T23:26:00.000-08:00

More Pictures

2006-12-31T08:09:00.000-08:00

Wow...been a while since I've posted pictures...here you go!

2006-12-30T15:26:00.000-08:00

I forget which location this was. Yet, I do remember the night rather vividly. It was a great night with Danny, Dan, and Dan's roomie...forget the picture. The blonde girl in the picture I just threw in there for you my loyal viewers.

These are some older pictures that I never posted of Rey and his work crew at Yogi's having a few drinks after work. Note, this was not a work sanctioned event.

Here is a picture of me with the French. Good people who like to sit, chat, and eat good food. This was a great meal and I wish my friends well on the child they are expecting.

My friend had her going away party from some fancy law firm in NYC. These are a few pictures of the gathering.

It doesn't say The Rooster is Cagey (ala Otis)...booo!

2006-12-27T08:27:00.000-08:00

Rooster people are very observant. And most of the time, they are very accurate and precise with their observation. Perhaps, you can say that Roosters have a very keen "sixth-sense". With Roosters, what you see is exactly what you get. There are no hidden depths to the Rooster's character: he is neither complicated nor profound, rather, he is very forthright and straightforward.

The rooster likes to be noticed and flattered. He might dress a little flashily with this in mind, but in his heart, he is completely conservative. Roosters always appear attractive and beautifully turned out. They are sociable and love to receive attention.

Believe it or not, it is not an easy task to fool the Rooster. His mind is cautious and skeptical, with this perceptive gift, Roosters make excellent trouble shooters, detectives, doctors, nurses and psychiatrists. Roosters are always up, out and doing. You rarely see a relaxed rooster that sits quietly in the living room, doing nothing. They are also multitalented, and can become accomplished in many different ways.

All Roosters are extremely conscious about clothing and appearance. They may appear conservative but are obsessed with their look - they can spend hours standing in front of the mirrors and will not even wink when they spend $500 for a jacket. That doesn't mean they don't care about money, in fact, they love to compare prices and even if the bargain is only few cents or few dollars cheaper, they will be satisfied.

Though sharp, practical and resourceful, the Rooster also likes to dream. And because he likes to dream, he will disappointed the loved one, for the reality will never match up to the dreams he would like to share with her. Nevertheless, he really is sincere about those dreams though.

Rooster people make great hosts and adore entertaining. The main virtue in the Rooster character is loyalty: they make devoted friends. They always keep their promises and are always true to their word. When Roosters love and admire someone, they will even catch the moon just to keep them happy.

Viva La France!

2006-12-06T21:04:00.000-08:00

I'm rolling there alone. None the less, I'm going with good vibes running through my body, mind and soul.

I really want to play some poker there so if anyone has a suggestion of clubs. I know there are a few nice clubs there and one needs an invite to others so if you can fill me in it would be greatly appriciated.

Oh, also, if you have a few places that you love to eat in Paris that would be great.

By the way, does anyone know what the National Bird of France is?

Pinky's Birthday

2006-11-21T21:02:00.000-08:00

It has been many a moon since I wrote on this blog. Lots has been going on in terms of life and work. Yet, there has always been one constant in my life and to not pay proper respect to the queen bee, Pinky would be a sin. So I wanted to dedicate this post to my rock, Pinky.

The following pictures are of Pinky's birthday party which took place some time back, but I thought I would post the pictures anyway. There was pizza from Patsy's and bowling at Bowlmorlanes. It was fun and I took not of the very differnt crowd of people that showed up. I think it is a good sign when you have such a mix of friends shows you can function with a huge diverse group.

In closing, happy birthday, Pinky. I hope you know that you are my rock and keep me grounded in a world which a person like myself could get lost. No postings or words can thank you enough...te mando un gran abrazo.

RIP Compadre

2006-10-17T15:57:00.000-07:00

As a kid I remember driving to Selma to visit my grandparents and cousins for the weekend. Often times we would start to sing along the way...it was often oldies, but I could vividly remember Freddy Fender playing on our radio. Not sure if my folks had the tape or it was what the radio was playing. Yet, what I do remember is that Freddy would have the whole car singing his songs especially, Wasted Days and Wasted Nights at the drop of a dime and we would sing it at the top of our lungs. Thus, I was sad to hear of Freddy's departure from mother earth.

Sitting here I can even remember my Mom singing this song while cooking and taking a second to grab me and spin me around the kitchen. Those things are what are gold and real and I'm so happy to have those memories. I'm currently listening to Freddy as my background music as I write this and I can picture myself in our small kitchen on Clifford Ave. I wish I had the chance to tell Freddy of these memories, I'm sure he would laugh and also be touched.

I'm sitting here laughing at the times my family had while driving to Selma. We didn't have much money, but as a family we were RICH. I remember there were those times when my folks were scraping by and at a drop of a dime my Dad and Mom would decide to make the three hour journey to visit family. I think those trips were for me and my sister to get out and see something different, not so much for themselves. Along the way on those trips my father would point out various points where he worked in the fields as a kid or a barn he painted with his uncle and brothers...I long for those days in many ways. We use to pull along the side of the road for fresh watermelon and grapes. Things back then were so grand for me and even here in an apartment five thousand miles away I can smell that Valley air.

In any case, I wanted to thank you Freddy for the good times you brought me and my family on those car rides and in the kitchen. Cuidate, Freddy...y viya con Dios, Compadre.

Random Photos Around The City

2006-10-01T20:56:00.000-07:00

The following pictures are of my adventure to the Brooklyn Country Music Festival. I hope you enjoy...Rey and I made the long trek from Manhattan to Brooklyn for this event and it was well worth the trip. We not only met good people but we also had a few drinks and heard some alright country music.

These were the pre-drinks before the concert...PALMAS (tequila and squirt)

Rey and Myself taking a picture in front of the band.

Yes, an all girl country band...they had some good music to boot.

Two cool kids we met: Amy and Justin

The following pictures are from another crazy night at Barcelona Bar on the Upper West Side here in NYC. I can't go into too many stories because there are so many from one night at this place...but I figured that I would let you make the story up in your mind.

She was taking the Monica Lewinski shot...notice no hands can be used.

She decides he should try on the wig...and take a ML shot?

The Asian Top Gun...nuff said.

These shots are on fire, you just can't see it.

Lindsey always willing to help.

We laughed about the prom pose.

The following pictures are from our night of boxing on the 16th of September. We had boxing, food and some good tequila....you couple that with good people and it makes for a good night.

The Mexican Crew

Rey trying a side pose.

Some of the drinks out for the night.

Leah and Lauren are best friends and have to be two of the nicest ladies I have met in some time in NYC.

Leah and Beto taking a quick picture.

Yes, the crew stays out until the sun comes up...nuff said.

The rice that Roy made.

The beans that Beto made.

The extras for the Guacamole.

Here is a night when John "The General" Lee invited me out with some of his friends out on the town and we hit Lolipop for the night. It was good times had by all.

Ivory and friends.

Ivory getting sweet nothing whispered to her.

Some of the other individuals that were in attendance.

2006-09-27T12:02:00.000-07:00

One of the great things about having a blog is being able to post things that matter to you and also hoping that someone will take note of causes that you hold dear to your heart. Thus, maybe they will find it in their heart to partake in the event which you are pushing and backing.

I remember as a kid there was tons to do in my small farm town...mostly at the local YMCA or just running around at the local park with friends. Yet, not all people are that lucky. My friend,Frank Walsh finds these things to be very important and he is always pushing me to get involved with such causes. Thus, I am starting off by attending this function that is trying to give kids from the inner city a place to find their artistic side and also a safe haven after school. As we know, the arts are dying in schools all across the city and that is something that makes me sad and makes me want to become a part of this cause.

So if you see me at this event feel free to stop by and say hello. You will probably find me at one of the craps tables tossing the dice.

There is more madness

2006-09-12T06:36:00.000-07:00

If you looked over my last post you noticed that the cabbie told you there would be more pictures and madness, so here you go.

The first picture is of Presidente Beer. I like the taste of the beer and it is one of the most under-rated beers in America...but it is from the D.R. I believe. Then there is the Mojito which Shep spoke about as the next big drink...this was taken at Calle Ocho and notice the stick of sugar cane in the drink, nice touch and good to naw on after tons of drinks. Last is a picture taken at my favorite German bar, Lorelei. I like this smooth tasting beer known as Gaffel.

Here are some of my friends that I thought I would post pictures of. The one in the red is an L.A. Girl and then there is Lupe who is from San Antonio. Both were in visiting for the week.

What can I say, these are the people who take care of me behind the bar. Good folks I say for putting up with me when I start yelling for drinks and who don't take me serious when I say shots for the house.

My art picture for the day and this was taken at 43rd and Sixth when I was getting ready to hit Jimmy's corner for a beer.

Pinky was kind enough to bring me to her friends Rishi and Reena's wedding. They met in the same program that took Pinky away from the states for a year and placed her in India for work...I think it was called IAF. In any case, good times and those Indians know how to party.

Of course there is Rey at Barcelona with his friends from work.

Every year Pinky takes me to the U.S. Open to try and get me some culture. Errr...I'm not sure it has worked to be honest, but I always thank her for the effort. Thanks Pinky!

In closing, that is a quick flash. I would post more but I don't want to bore yout too much. Hit my Poker Blog or my Food Blog for more stories.

It has been a while CityBlog

2006-09-10T10:31:00.000-07:00

It has been such a long time since I have posted something in my city blog. Not sure why, but maybe there is splitting time between three blogs and the reality that life happens and sometimes this blog takes a second or third seat to other things in my life. With that being said, I thought it would be a good idea to show you what I have been up to via pictures. Yes, I know you hate to see my pictures...but I figure if pictures are worth a thousand words then it's kind of like posting to my blog a few thousand words....o.k. I cheat...I cheat.

Nothing like good NYC pizza brought to you from the bar next door so you can have a good slice of pie and a cold one.

And when eating pizza, drinking beer at a cool bar you, you need to be watching the U.S. Open, but more importantly you have to be watching King Andre.

The Champions. Nuff said. You won't find these folks out on the rookie nights such as Saturday night (but they will probably be out just for the drinks)...but Monday thru Thurs you will find them at the local pubs doing it up like the rock stars they are.

Some of the locals who often hit Barcelona.

This is the sweet stuff they all come for....sweeet!!

My art picture for the day.

You see bikes like this locked up all over NYC. Next week when you show up only the frame is left.

I saw this dog and I thought I would snap a picture of him real quick and his owner was cool about it.

The Champions say...let's roll so we jump in to the cab to another bar.

Now we head over to Yogi's...yes, the bear!!

Next a hookah for The Rooster...nothing like ending the night with a hookah.

The cab driver letting all you know there is more to come tomorrow.

HELLO!!!

2006-08-20T19:45:00.000-07:00

It has been a long while since I have taken the time to write in any of my blogs, but even more so my city blog.

So let me start by wishing Pinky a happy birthday. What can I say, Pinky has been my best friend and rock for so many years and has been at my side in both my high and low points. There are no words which would do her justice so I won't try. Pinky, thank you for everything over the years and on this birthday I wish you continued success and happiness.

Also, I wanted to send my congratuations to Sri Ramaswami also known in some circles as Sir Daddy for getting married to a very beautiful lady and here are a few pictures from their wedding.

Here are some pictures from the 4th of July in D.C. Sorry it has taken me so long to post these. I also have film of this but I'm not sure how to upload those little films onto here as of yet.

Happy Birthday Zenaida!!!

2006-07-31T20:37:00.000-07:00

It was Little Sarah's Birthday this past weekend and we celebrated it here in the city trying to reach back for our rock star status of years past. I figured I would just send a shout to one of my best friends here in the city and a class girl. I'm proud to call you one of my best friends, Zenaida...CHURCH! Here are some of the pictures from the weekend.

A picture of Zenaida in frot of the NYC skyline!

Keep the dirty martini's coming...Gas Light Bar in the Meatpacking District.

Sarah always gets a fan club of the opposite sex where ever we go.

It was muggy out and a bit of glossy eyed.

Many of times has a train been caught here.

No, it really is chocolate milk...heehee!

Life is a blur when in a NYC cab ride.

The Texas Two...nuff said.

The smile says, no better way to spend one's birthday than on the dance floor.

In closing, Little Sarah, I hope you had a great birthday, Mija. I wish you continued success over at the University of Mich...I send you my crazy ass skillz in academia as I'm sure you can use them. I also send you tons of good vibes for this upcoming year.

Happy 21st Julie

2006-07-26T07:11:00.000-07:00

It was Julie's 21st birthday yesterday and I hit her party at some pub on West 46th. I arrived somewhat late but it was good to see Julie on her special day...it's nice to see friends on their birthdays because you remember that everyone is getting older, not just yourself. It was also special because for many years Julie and I use to throw them back in our youth at the UCLA gatherings. And to be honest, it's something that I miss now that we are mature adults...cough!cough! But I just wanted to post her wishing her a happy-happy birthday. Best wishes, Jules.

I Haven't Posted In A While

2006-07-18T20:00:00.000-07:00

I haven't posted here in a while so I figured I would post pictures and tell little stories about it.

The following pictures are from my friend Farah's birthday. Without a doubt Farah is one of the sweetest girls in the world and she just has a heart of gold. The other picture is of my friend Ruby (yellow top) and her girl. Oh, I forgot to send shouts to Farah's cool ass boss who threw this party for her and who also provided us with a bottle of Grey Goose!!!! And yes, that is The General in that one picture.

The following pictures are random pictures of Mexico.

This picture below is of the guys who use to run the streets of NYC when they were young. Now there are two married in the group and another two which aren't. Needless to say we were here for the wedding of the guy in the red shirt. Congrats Jorge...man down! man down!

The following picture was of the view I had from my seat.

I knew you all would want to see some pictures of the girls. Thus, I figured I would try and take photos with every girl possible.

The following are just random pictures from Mexico that I don't think need much in terms of words. I figure you can make out the stories if you want. If you have any questions fee free to ask me.

The boys just over looking the ocean and drinking a beer.

Yes, I even found the local town Rooster.

The General Lee took this photo when he went parasailing. Me, I don't do the stuff way above ground...yes, scared of heights. This was a picture of our hotel. I think it was like 50.00 bucks a night or something like that.

The Rooster is saying, bring the pain please.

Los Muchachos de camisa blanca.

Danni con su Familia de Guadaljara.

Los Muchachos de las camisas negras.

Los Hermanos de Danni.

One must always handle his/her bottle of Tequila with care.

La Familia de Danni.

Los Compadres.

The newest striker for Team Mexico.

Himbo?

2006-06-26T08:36:00.000-07:00

I thought the post by Alikat was an interesting one and well worth the read. Enjoy!!!

One Day The Kids Will Ask You

2006-06-23T10:41:00.000-07:00

Yes, one day in the not so distant future, kids will ask you if you saw him. If he was as great as they say he was...and you...well you my friend will sit back in the rocking chair with a smile and say, he was the most beatiful thing on the pitch...EVER!

www.nikesoccer.com

Visit my food blog

2006-06-19T13:27:00.000-07:00

Not sure if you are interested in some good food pictures I took while in Mexico...but if you are make sure and visit my food site here: Joaquin's Food blog

The General on L.A.

2006-06-13T07:08:00.000-07:00

This is a small guest post by the notorious, John "The General" Lee. I pulled these questions off of Facty's

blog. In any case, this is what The General came up with.

In closing, I will continue to do guests post such as these here and there to get this city blog going.

Four Jobs I've Had In My Life in LA: Delivery Boy for the San Gabriel
Valley Tribune, Chinese food delivery guy, bartender at Jerry's Famous
Deli, Auditor for Mortgage Lender

Four Movies About LA I Could Watch Over And Over: LA Story, 2 Days in
the Valley, Friday, Swingers

Four Places I've Lived All Over L.A. (With Food Memories From Each):
Rowland Hts. (Colima burger), Westwood ($1.50 Sub), Van Nuys (Chris' and
Pitts BBQ), Sherman Oaks (Cafe Bizou)

Four LA-Themed Shows I Love(d) To Watch: Entourage, Numb3rs, Three's
Company, Babewatch

Four Places I Would Vacation At In LA: Santa Barbara (ok it's not
really LA but it's still nice), Newport Balboa, Hollywood Mondrian,
Malibu

Four LA-Based Websites I Visit Daily: ucla.scout.com, LA Times, LA
Daily News, dailybruin.com

Four Of My Favorite Foods Found In LA: In-n-Out Burgers, Tommy Burgers,
Menudo at Las Fuentes, Roscoe's Chx. and Waffles

Four Places In LA I Would Rather Be Right Now: Westwood, Manhattan
beach, anywhere along the PCH, Sunset Blvd.

It's Been A While City Blog!!!

2006-06-12T10:35:00.000-07:00

It has been so long since I’ve written in my city blog. I can’t remember the last time I wrote here. But here I am typing something to get the ball rolling here…let’s start with the highlights:

I'm in a funk for some reason so I don't have much to say. I'm just typing to get the juice flowing. O.K. enough....not much is coming out now.